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Gotta Share Videos…

Mom Blogging:

Browsing through wedding blogs and talking with other vendors in the wedding industry on Twitter, I come across links for wedding videos that I love and just have to share.  Jason sent me a link to a wedding music video by Lockdown Projects, an awesome company in the UK that Jason also likes because they are big in the snowboard industry.  I think this is just the coolest idea ever, and what a perfect song choice too!  You have to watch this!

Brian & Eileen’s Wedding Music Video by Lockdown Projects

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I found the next video on Twitter when BrideTide gave the link from the Bride Tide Blog.  I am a big sap, but it made me teary-eyed seeing what wonderful friends the couple had.  I want to know what church let the wedding party do this!  Most churches out here have lots of rules about the ceremony.  Who has a fun wedding party?  It would be so cool for someone to do something like this for the reception entrance!

JK Wedding Entrance Dance:  Best Wedding Entrance Dance Ever from the Bride Tide Blog

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Finally AMC Video, a wonderful videography company that Jason has worked with in the Naples/Fort Myers area, had a clip of a funny and unique toast to a bride and groom on their blog.

Best Man’s Song from the wedding of Sara and Dan from AMC Video’s Blog

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Hope those give all of you a good laugh, and maybe a couple ideas for planning something fun and unique for your own weddings!

Our Gift from God

Mom Blogging:

Nine days past her due date, our family finally welcomed our new baby.  She was born at 11:03 pm on 7-7 at 7 lbs 13 oz and 20 inches.  She made a dramatic entrance in the world!  I thought I’d share some of the birth story for anyone who might be interested.

Jason and I went to a doctor’s appointment that afternoon where I was going to be monitored since I was over a week past my due date.  After an ultrasound, we were told that we needed to talk to the doctor and were put in her office to wait.  When she came in, she told us that there was no easy way to tell us that we needed to go right to the hospital and have a C-section right away.  She said the ultrasound showed problems and we had to do this immediately.  As she walked us out of her office to the door (me in tears) Jason asked about inducing labor instead and I asked if we even had time to go home and get our bag.  She said we needed to go straight from there to the hospital.

Scared about the baby and not really understanding exactly what the problem was, we went to the hospital.  It took an hour or two before the doctor on call from my group came to see us.  During that time, I realized that this couldn’t be that much of an emergency or they wouldn’t have waited so long to come talk to me.  I also told all the nurses that I didn’t understand what was wrong on the ultrasound and that I really truly did not want a C-section.  Finally the doctor came in and explained that the ultrasound showed little to no amniotic fluid and that could be an issue for cord compression.  He said that he didn’t see any reason not to try inducing labor, though I needed to understand that I was at an increased risk to have C-section.  I was so happy that at least I would have a chance of avoiding the surgery!

I started at 3 cm and they broke my water (though there was little of it left) and started pitocin at around 4:30pm.  My wonderful doula Stefany soon met me at the hospital and was just awesome trying to help me relax through contractions and also helping me position to avoid any issues with the baby’s heart rate since cord compression was a big concern.

At around 9 pm there had still been no change despite how intense the contractions felt.  I had the shakes really badly and in the middle of dealing with that and some painful contractions I realized something was wrong.  There were lots of nurses and the doctor in my room.  They were moving me all around from side to side.  The baby’s heart rate had dropped down and stayed down for several minutes and they were trying to help me get into a position where it would come back up.  Finally, after many scary minutes, it did.  The doctor told me that though I didn’t want a C-section, if the heart rate did that one more time we would have to do one anyways.  She also said that because I had no changes to my cervix and the baby was already not tolerating contractions, we might need a C-section anyways.  She told me to stay in the position I was in to hopefully keep the heart rate up.  I had hoped to wait until I was further along before getting an epidural, if I got one at all, but with hours of unproductive pitocin strengthened contractions and now having to stay in one position the entire time, at around 9:30 pm I got the epidural.

God was with us and believe it or not, in a little over an hour after that huge scare, I was ready to deliver!  In just that short time I dilated from 3 cm to 10 cm and in less than 15 minutes of pushing Jason and I welcomed our third miracle, our baby girl who is truly a gift from God.  She was perfect with no issues at all despite the labor scares.  She is absolutely beautiful with dark black hair and grayish eyes.  She was pretty fussy her first night, but who wouldn’t be after all that!  She is being much nicer to us now.

Big brothers came to meet their new sister today and both were so cute.  Our oldest son would hardly let anyone else touch his new sister and begged to hold her constantly.  In fact, he spent the entire day with us at the hospital because he wouldn’t leave her side.  Our younger son immediately reached for his sister and gave her a huge hug.  With some help he held her for a couple minutes and when we took her back he cried out “Mine” and asked for another turn.  They are both already so in love with their little sister and are going to be terrific big brothers.

We’ve had many people ask us what we decided to name her and we’d love to share that with you!  However, we have some internet safety concerns and have decided not to share it on the internet.  If you email us, we’d be happy to let you know!

Here are some of baby’s first pictures, with many more to come in the days and weeks ahead!  Thanks to everyone for the thoughts and prayers, and the congratulations!  We are so blessed!

Getting through a contraction with the help of my doula, Stefany:

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Just after being born:

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Meeting my baby:babe3

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Jason already has plans for making his daughter into a “Daddy’s Girl.”  We’ll see!

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Gifts for Little Sister

Mom Blogging:

Stephanie asked me on Twitter what gifts the boys were getting for their new baby sister.  I started to get a picture or two ready to share with her back on Twitter but there were too many cute ones and I decided to do a blog update.  Way to distract me from editing weddings Stephanie!!!

Yesterday Jason and I took the boys to Build a Bear Workshop to make bears for their sister.  We brought our oldest when he first became a big brother and have made it a family tradition for when a new baby comes.  It is a special day and we won’t let our kids go there any other time so it is even more special when they do it as a gift for a new little sibling!  After waiting a couple hours for the crowds of class trips that were there to clear out, we finally got the boys started on their bears.  They each picked their own, recorded a message to their sister to go inside the bear, kissed the heart and stuffed the bear, bathed the bears, and then chose outfits before naming the bears and making the birth certificates.  They did such a great job and their little sister is going to love her bears!

All taken on our point and shoot, mostly by me…

Choosing their bears (don’t we have the cutest kids!):

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Putting love on the hearts to go inside the bears:

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Looking pretty rough because he has a cold:

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Stuffing:

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Bathing and brushing:

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How funny are the boys faces as they are looking at dresses and bloomers and try to pick out girly clothes!!!  I love it!  This is one of my favorite pictures of the day.

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All done and ready for baby!

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Birthday Session

Mom Blogging:

I look at my boys and think there is no way they can get any cuter.  But then my oldest has his birthday session and I see cute can’t even begin to describe him!  Here are a few of his pictures:

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Buzz Lightyear Birthday

Mom Blogging:

Wow, our oldest son is another year older.  He has grown so much in the past year and as cliche as it sounds, birthdays are bittersweet reminders of how quickly time goes by.  Seeing him grow makes me so proud of him, yet it makes me want to grab him tight and not let go!

He chose a Buzz Lightyear theme for his party so we bought invitations, banners, streamers, balloons, plates, table cloths, hats, party favors, cups, and blowers all with Buzz Lightyear on them.  We bought a solar system to hang around the room for decoration, and we got the pictures that he just took at Disney World of him with Buzz Lightyear and put them on a photo board which we displayed in the room.  For some craft projects, together we made felt stars to hang on ribbons from the chairs, a rocket ship to hang from the ceiling, and a poster of outer space which he made himself.  And of course we had a Buzz Lightyear birthday cake.  It was fun to put together, but more importantly it was wonderful to see how special he felt seeing it all come together just for him.

For the kids to play, we set up a bunch of tunnels and a ball pit outside and inside we had lots of toys.  Then after the cake we had someone come to give each kid their own cake to decorate.  All of our son’s friends were given a chef’s hat and an apron to decorate.  They then put those on and had a small cake that they got to frost in different colors and put sprinkles on.  When they were done, all the kids got to take home their hat, apron, and decorated cake.  No one got nearly as messy as I expected!  In fact, even their aprons stayed clean!

Also there to entertain the kids was Buzz Lightyear himself!  He gave the other parents there a laugh as well.

After the party, we watched our son open presents and then had a birthday dinner before heading to home to give him one last gift.  Jason had set up a play area in the back yard with a sand box, water table, play house, slide, and the new birthday present we got him, a spinning teeter totter!  Before all the outside toys were scattered around the yard and lanai so both boys were excited to see a play area set up with all their stuff.

Happy Birthday my beautiful boy.  I hope your day made you feel even a fraction of as special as you are.  You are God’s gift to me and I love you so much!

Some of the decorations:

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To Infinity, and Beyond!

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It was around this time, looking at my boy so happy surrounded by his friends and family and people who love him, that I started crying.  I was also singing Happy Birthday so I’m sure I sounded horrible, but I couldn’t help it.  It is an amazing gift to be a mother and seeing a smile like this fills my heart.

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He takes after Jason.

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Cake decorating:

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Some of Zurg’s helpers:

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The aftermath in the backyard:

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My mom is awesome and knows birthdays can be hard for the brother who isn’t getting all the gifts, so she got our youngest a little present that he could open and play with while the birthday boy was opening all of his own gifts.

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It looks like he liked his present!

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His brother had fun on it too:

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Playing in the new back yard play area Jason set up:

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Someone really needs a bath:

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This was taken the next day, but I thought it was so cute!

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It’s Good to Be Home Again!

Mom Blogging:

After being out of town for a week, we are happy to be home.  We had gone up to the DC area to visit family and take the boys on one last vacation with just the four of us before the baby arrives.  We had lots of fun stuff planned, including a ski trip where big brother was finally going to get ski lessons like he had been asking for!  But plans changed as our vacation quickly turned National Lampoon style…

The night before we left, our oldest started throwing up.  It lasted all night and I ended up calling my mom for help.  I felt bad waking her but it turned out she was already up helping my sister who had the same stomach bug.  We prayed for his stomach to be strong and the next morning it seemed it might hold off for at least the plane trip.

In the airport waiting for our flight to leave (all images from the trip were taken with our point and shoot camera):

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The problem was that we didn’t even think about little brother’s tummy.  Yes, within minutes of taking off he threw up all over me.  Now skip this part if you have a weak stomach because I am talking from my hair down to my knees, wet tee-shirt contest worthy, looks like I peed my pants soaked in horrible smelling regurgitated milk.  People around us either felt bad for us or were completely rude about the situation.  Did they really think they had it worse than we did or that there was anything we could do about it that we weren’t already trying?  Thankfully the flight attendant on our Southwest flight was helpful and understanding and kept checking in on us which made things a bit more bearable.  Despite mopping both of us up with paper towels the best that I could, our youngest spent the entire flight throwing up (luckily into a bag the rest of the time) and I sat there cuddling my sick toddler and trying not to think of how gross I smelt, looked, and felt.  I do have to say that I have an amazing husband who was right there to take care of anything I asked him to do, even wiping down my hair for me.  And big brother was happy to watch the Smurfs on the DVD player the entire flight and didn’t even seem to notice everything happening around him!

Here we are getting all of our luggage (didn’t Jason do a terrific job stacking everything onto the stroller!) and making the difficult journey with two young boys and too much stuff to the shuttle for the rental car.

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Though I hoped it was motion sickness and not really a contagious stomach virus, our youngest’s stomach didn’t hold up well on the drive to Jason’s mom’s house.  Big brother’s stomach ended up not doing well later that night either.  After we got them both bathed and I finally got to shower, Jason went out to get some Gatorade for the boys.  We were worried about them getting dehydrated since they weren’t keeping anything down.  The roads weren’t great because of snow and sleet but the grocery store was very close by.  We waited and waited for Jason to get home but instead I got a phone call.  It was Jason and he had been in an accident.  An all air bags deployed, On-Star activated, police on the scene car accident.  And it was in the rental car that we had declined the insurance on.  God was with Jason though and he wasn’t hurt at all.  He was driving back when suddenly the car in front of him swerved allowing Jason to now see another car broken down in the middle of the road.  He tried to swerve out of the way too but because of the icy roads he wasn’t able to and hit the car.  The car behind Jason also swerved and ended up skidding on the ice across the median into oncoming traffic.  He was able to make it all the way across out of harm’s way though so there were no other collisions.

After the tow truck came to get the rental car and all the police paperwork was filled out, the police officer was kind enough to take Jason back home.  That night and the next day were filled with the headache of the phone calls and paperwork that happen after a car accident.  Can you believe that even though the guy left his broken down car in the middle of traffic and even though the roads were snowy and icy so conditions were a factor, because Jason hit from behind the insurance considers it to be his fault?  Despite the stressful financial issues that brings up, we were just very happy to know that we were still covered in this situation.

While Jason was dealing with our insurance company, the rental car company, and getting a new rental car for the rest of our vacation, I was still caring for our sick boys.  We had to cancel the ski trip which made our oldest sad but he was hardly even able to get out of bed.  Watching the Smurfs cheered him up (thank goodness my sister got that for me for my birthday!) and we told him that when he was well he could play in the snow outside.  Finally after a couple days little brother seemed all better and big brother was feeling good enough to get up and play!

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That’s when I caught the stomach bug.  And it was bad.  I was so sick there was nothing left to be sick on and I would just dry heave until I choked.  I couldn’t even keep down a sip of water and I started to get nervous about the baby.  I was definitely very dehydrated and I called my doctor’s office.  All they did was tell me what medicines I could try, but if I couldn’t keep down water there was no way I was going to keep down any of those.  Again God was with me and just when I had decided that I needed to go to the ER, I was able to keep down ice cubes and not long after some gatorade and water too.  I had called my mom and found out that though one sister was starting to get better, my other sister caught it bad and had to go to the hospital.  The doctors there said that it could be a stomach virus or it could be delayed onset of food poisoning.  All of us had shared an ice cream cake to celebrate my birthday right before we left but two other people also ate it and didn’t get sick so it is still a mystery.  Either way, it was another full day before I could get out of bed and try to keep any food down.  As I stayed in bed sick, Jason took the boys out to play in the snow, build snowmen, and throw snow balls.  Well, at least that is what the plan was, but this being the vacation of Murphy’s Law by this time the snow was really just sheets of ice.  They couldn’t really play in it at all!

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Big brother having to crawl up a small hill because he kept slipping on the ice:

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Making a “snowball”:

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I was a bit worried when I saw this picture of little brother playing with an ice dagger pointed right at his head!  Figures Jason would take a picture before taking it away.

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I love this picture of the boys!

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Notice the almost empty bottle of Gatorade in the background as Grammy plays play-doh with the boys.  How symbolic of the first half of our trip!

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Once everyone’s stomach was doing better, we were ready to have fun and make the most out of the few remaining days we had left.  Vacation fun is eating yummy food so here is little brother after enjoying a chocolate chip cookie:

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And what are vacations for if not for relaxing?!

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Jason and I decided to take the boys to DC.  We got on the Metro and of course the people all around us were on their cell phones.  I don’t mean to sound old-fashioned, but cell phones really bother me sometimes.  You can’t do anything without people all around you on the phone.  You take your kids to the park and half of the parents are on the phone instead of interacting with their kids.  You go to church and at the beginning they have to remind you to turn your cell phones off.  It gets ridiculous!  And when people are on their phone they talk about their private business without any cares about who is around.  I would like to think that normally people would not start cussing and talking about drugs and sex when there are kids sitting right next to them, but that is just what happened on the Metro.  Somehow being on the phone with their friends made it okay.  The boys were so excited to be on a “train” and not in car seats that they didn’t pay attention to anyone around them.  I am glad of that!

Soon the metro person made an announcement that due to a fire or smoke or something, three stations were closed and they were turning the trains around before those stations.  We were able to figure out another way to get to DC by transferring to three different lines and going in all kinds of directions to come around to the Smithsonian station from the other side.  By the time we made it into DC it was mid-afternoon so we weren’t able to see much but we told the boys we’d get to the Air and Space Museum and the Natural History Museum for them to see the dinosaur bones.

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The National Air and Space Museum:

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Can you believe this is what they used to serve on flights?  We got a little bag of crackers and a cup of juice!

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After seeing the prices at the McDonalds (the only place for food) in the museum, we should have broken open that tray the flight attendant was holding.  We spent almost $50 for fast food and we don’t even like fast food!

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The Washington Monument across the National Mall:

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At the Museum of Natural History they had an awesome photography exhibition.  It was the Nature’s Best Photography Awards Exhibition 2008.  Jason of course wanted to find out where the printing was done because it was gorgeous!  The prints were sealed in acrylic and looked amazing.  We loved the Macaroni Penguins (click the link to see the full image on the Smithsonian’s site) which were photographed by Andrew Rouse.  We also liked the image of Mt. Ranier National Park, the image of a grizzly bear, and the image of a lion running through water.

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My favorite and the boys’ favorite was the Lemon Shark.  You have to click the link to see the full image because it is amazing!

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Bruce Yates was the photographer who took the shark picture and online I found his description of how he took it.  I assumed he was underwater in a shark cage but actually he was on a boat holding his camera under the water.

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Check out Jim Abernethy’s Scuba Adventures website for more amazing underwater photography images too!  And here is Jason being eaten by an ancestor of the Great White shark:

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A giant squid (they can be up to 60 feet long and weigh as much as a ton):

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Dinosaur bones:

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Dinosaur cookies:

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Jason saw this picture and wanted to share it on the blog because he wants to convince someone to do a kid session like this!  Who is up for it?

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My favorite necklace in the Gem collection.  Wow!

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Now for those of you who are engaged, make sure you tell your fiance about this crown.  It was a wedding present from Napoleon to his second wife, Empress Marie Louise, in 1810.  It is set in silver and has 950 diamonds weighing 700 carats.  There were originally 79 emeralds but they were replaced by Persian turquoise cabochons.  When Empress Marie Louise later had a baby, Napoleon’s present to her for that occasion (also in the museum) was a 275 carat diamond necklace.  Hmmm…

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The plane ride home was peaceful and uneventful.  The flight wasn’t crowded at all.  Big brother watched the Smurfs again (no, he doesn’t get to watch TV or videos that much usually!  It was just a vacation thing) and little brother slept almost the whole time.

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Despite all the editing, emails, and such waiting for us to catch up on, we are happy to be home!  Though it wasn’t quite the vacation we planned on as our last trip before the baby, you really can’t help but just laugh.  Well, at least until the bills come in and the car insurance rates go up!  I’m proud that we were able to roll with the punches, make the best of things, and have some fun experiences.  Really a vacation is all about coming together as a family and we certainly did that!  I love my family and I am so grateful to them and to God for giving me them.

And now…back to work!

Thanks for the Congratulations!

Mom Blogging:

Thanks to everyone for all the baby congratulations!  It is awesome to be able to share such a happy experience.  It really was hard not sharing the news for a couple months!

After getting no sleep last night because of both boys being sick, Jason and I headed over to my doctor’s appointment today.  It was a super quick check up but the doctor gave me an ultrasound and we saw our baby moving all around!  It is a miracle to see this life squirming and waving in there.  We are on cloud nine today!  Of course, being so amazed and happy, both Jason and I forgot to ask for a print out of the ultrasound picture but we go back again in two weeks and will get another ultrasound so we’ll have one to share then.

Thanks again for making this incredible time feel even more special with all your well-wishes!

Fahrenheit 451

From Mom:

Well, we’re not quite up to the title of the book but together the four of us have temperatures over 404 degrees.  Yes, we are all miserably sick.  We know that there are people waiting for blog updates.  They will be coming soon!  For now both Jason and I are struggling to take care of our sick boys when all we want to do is crawl into bed.  Sorry for the wait!

Tag!

We were tagged by Phillip Mackenzie!  How fun!  Well technically he tagged dad but since he is gone at weddings all weekend, mom is going to play instead.


Mom Blogging:

4 things I did today (counting yesterday after midnight):

1.  Edited photos…and then edited more photos…

2.  Practiced playing football for my son’s first game tomorrow

3.  Prayed

4.  Held a toy skull up to the light so it would glow in the dark

4 things on my to-do list:

1.  Print and organize all of our family photos since I am almost a year behind!

2.  Go back and read the No Cry Sleep Solution to get some ideas for our youngest since it worked for our oldest

3.  As soon as the kids aren’t sick any more, plan another date night with Jason

4.  And of course, as always, edit photos

4 of my guiltiest pleasures:

1.  Having the house to myself for the day

2.  Ben and Jerry’s Coffee Heath Bar Crunch

3.  Sleeping (yes, not just sleeping in, just sleeping at all when my to do list is always so long)

4.  Online shopping

4 random facts about me:

1.  According to my mom, I was born a month and a half after my due date

2.  I am a published writer

3.  I once worked doing piercings (nothing as interesting as it sounds)

4.  I have never gone to any professional sports game though I’m a big football fan


Now the game is to tag four other photographers!  So, tag Courtney, Erin and Chris, Camille, and Monica and Jacob, you’re it!

Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day

An angel in the book of life wrote down my baby’s birth,

and whispered as she closed the book, “Too Beautiful for Earth”

–Author Unknown

October 15th is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day.  It is a day for to remember those babies who have returned to God so soon, and to provide support for those who are grieving.  Be sure to light a candle, say a prayer, or even participate in one of the walks or local events.  Here is a link to a list of local activities from www.october15th.com:

http://www.october15th.com/activities_walks_Florida.htm